Episode 7: Strength Is Sexy

Strong is sexy, and strength is another important characteristic of the ninja spirit. There is nothing more attractive than the look of sleek, toned muscles in every stage of life. Discover a surprisingly simple and effective way to keep your muscles strong, fit, and toned all in the privacy of your own home. Because, strength is not only sexy, it’s powerful.

Episode 5: Cutting The Ties That Bind

GirlfriendsBreaking up with someone is always awkward, and uncomfortable. But a few years ago I had the McDaddy of all breakups when I had to break up with my BFF.  

It was so bad I actually had to seek professional help. Because, how do you tell someone you have been best friends with for thirty years (yep, I said thirty), that you haven’t liked them for the past fifteen and have been trying to figure out how to break up with them for the past ten?

Find out what happened, and why cutting the ties that bind is an incredibly empowering experience, and a terrific way to reclaim your human dignity. 

Episode 4:Don’t Be Sorry–Just Be You

How many times a day do you say the words “I’m sorry?” Women are always apologizing, even when we haven’t done anything wrong. I call it Excessive Apology Disorder, and it can be a real problem for you. 

Because when you continuously apologize for anything and everything (when you aren’t responsible), it slowly and methodically chips away at your personal power, allowing for self-doubt to come creeping in. Eventually guilt and shame follows right behind it.  

Here’s how to recognize if you have Excessive Apology Disorder, and what to do about it if you do. Because not everything is your fault.

Episode 3: Simple Ninja Safety Tip

This simple ninja safety tip is an ancient ninja secret which is a valuable life skill that you can practice every day. It’s simple, it’s easy, and it’s something that you want to share with everyone you care about, especially your children.

It will not only keep you safe, it will open up a whole new world for you. And the first part of the secret is right in the palm of your hand.

Episode 2: Super Special Ninja Secret

This nifty little ninja secret is one of the first things I learned as a brand new martial arts student. It’s something that everyone should know, and practice on a regular basis.

It’s the secret of the ninja disappearing act, and you will be amazed at how easy and effective it can be. After all, life IS full of hits! 

Episode 1: Welcome to The FemiNinja Project!

Welcome to the debut of The FemiNinja Project! Meet the woman behind the Ninja disguise and discover a few of her deep, dark secrets, as well as how her martial arts training helped a middle-aged princess find her might on the mat. And, learn a few secrets of the Ninja that can help empower you and change your life!

Ancient Ninja Secret for Your New Year

Here we are, in the last week of January. Maybe you started the new month (and the new year), with high expectations of working out, going to the gym, or eating healthy. How’s that working out so far?

A lot of us make those New Year’s Resolutions and end up falling flat on our face. Fantastic. One more thing we can feel guilty about. But, I have a better idea. Instead of feeling guilty or giving up completely, I am going to share an ancient ninja secret with you. But, please don’t report me to the Society of Ninja Secrets. They might not like it, and might take away my hard-earned official secret ninja card.

So, here it is–keep moving! Literally, just move. Move your body in every single direction, including forward, backward, side to side, and diagonally. There are many reasons why this is important.

1). First of all, if you can move in any directions or any moment in time, it will keep you safe in an oftentimes unsafe world. When you can adapt to any unexpected change in your environment, it can even save your life.

2). Next, the simple act of moving your body improves your circulation, lymphatic flow, cognition, awareness, balance, flexibility, and cognition.  Moving your body keeps you from getting stuck, both physically, mentally, and emotionally. However, if you are stuck in any way, movement stimulates brain function, gets the creative juices flowing, and helps improve your problem-solving abilities. You can find solutions to problems that you’ve never thought of when you were sitting on the couch waiting for the spring thaw.

3). Finally, ditch the judgment and the self-doubt. Just find new and creative ways to move and explore your environment, just like you did when you were a kid. There is no right or wrong, just opportunities to learn. and that is a nifty little ninja secret that is my late January gift to you. Besides, it’s so good for your health!

Blinded By The Light

“Blinded by the light” made for a great song title by the Manfred Mann’s Earth Band in the early 1970s.  But, if you’ve ever had a bright light in your eyes, you know that it does literally blind you, at least temporarily. Those rods and cones that live in your retina start going absolutely bonkers trying to readjust to the sudden burst of bright light, leaving you confused and disoriented.

Which is the reason why you should always have a strong, high powered flashlight with you at all times, day and night. And, you should be holding it in your dominate hand.

I know, you probably don’t have the personal real estate available for something as frivolous as a flashlight. After all, that is where your cell phone lives, even when you’re walking around in public. But, I beg of you, as I have many times before, put your cell phone in your purse! Put it there, and leave it there.

If you are ever approached by a stranger and need a quick get-away, a high quality flashlight with a powerful beam of light is the perfect defensive weapon of choice. Even in the daylight, all you have to do is shine the light in their face, temporarily blinding them and giving you the opportunity to get away and to a safe place.

And, you have the additional advantage to get a clear view of the person’s face so you can give a detailed description to the police when you file a complaint. Which you will do, of course. Because we do need to shine the light on the bad guys so we know who they are and can put them away. Yay!

Choose a high quality flashlight with a high powered beam and settings for a strobe light and an SOS. Make sure it has a nice weight to it and fits well in your hand. It will probably feel better than your cell phone. And, it will be far more useful, especially if you ever need to blind someone with the light.